成功的要素 - 正面思維

呢排小子都係同內子討論好多關於育兒同埋成功的要素

其中一個小子非常之重視的係正面思維

因為我發覺好多香港人, 特別係好多上一代的人都好鍾意講...你無XXX 你漏左XXX 你唔XXX

其實人腦係一個好覆雜的系統, 如果你有睇開"吸引力法則" (或者"THE SECRET" 呢本書)你就知道, 你口中講咩, 其實身體會實現一種self fulfilling prophecy

最最layman 的例子係你對住你個小朋友講:你唔得架啦, 你考唔到架啦, 咩都否定佢.

自自然然佢點樣信心爆棚都係做到一事無成, 原因唔係因為佢能力不足, 係佢由細收的INFOMRATION 都係唔得, 唔得, 唔得, 所以實現左self fulfilling prophecy

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-fulfilling_prophecy

If you think you can, you can
If you think you can't...... 898

又一例子係港青成日睇毒果話買唔到樓,我唔得架啦,D樓好貴.....ETC
因為SELF FULFILLING PROPHECY 下, 佢地一定係唔得, 一定買唔到先會自我感覺良好....個心先會同自己講...嗱, 都話唔得架啦, 一早講左唔得, 唔得, 唔L7得啦.

小子剛同負面L又講完野, 又聽到"你漏左個FULL PICUTRE未俾我...WELL, 其實你係問緊A做唔做好, 但係有BCDEF 的資料, 但係我答你A, 你可以話我可以CONVEY 埋B-F 的INFORMATION, 但係"漏左", "無做" 等等負面撚思維真係要時間清洗下先可以MOVE ON
否則, 一跌入負面CYCLE 入面,一世人只會一事無成...